How does your mind set affect your success in life?


 How does your mind set affect your success in life?

As previously discussed the energy we send out to the greater universe is directly reflected back to ourselves. Therefore our mind set affects how we think, behave and feel in various situations.
Depending on the way we feel about ourselves will determine if we attract success or failure into any given situation. If our expectations are realistic and we have inner belief , focus,drive and determination there is nothing to stop us from achieving what we desire .What can so easily happen is that we can start to doubt our ability to achieve our goals and that is what can then cause failure.
There are a number of situations that can cause this doubt to surface including negative past experiences, listening to others opinions,beliefs ,social conditioning ,unresolved trauma and a lack of confidence within ourselves that we are capable of achieving our goals which will then cause doubt and fear.
Our mindset can vary enormously and depending on how we view situations will have a direct impact on the outcome. Here are factors that will determine success or failure
Choosing to grow within or stay fixed and inflexible in your views
Having a positive attitude or negative
Creating and choosing to attractive abundance or feeling fear and attracting scarcity
Viewing a situation as a challenge or a threat
Choosing to be mindful about the world around you and care about others or making the choice to be mindless and not care about anyone except ourselves.
We all have the ability to change our mindset you are never too old or too 'set in your ways' your culture or upbringing does not need to determine your ability to choose how you think,feel and behave that is down to personal choice . There are some people that find it easier to make excuses or blame others because they do not want to take responsibility for their choices . This is the easy option, but it is not the one to take if you wish to achieve abundance.
Take full responsibility instead of inflicting blame on others or making excuses, for your choices only then will you grow and learn from your mistakes to make better choices in the future

Elizabeth Lock      Holistic Therapist 
www.yourcuddletherapy.co.uk   heal@yourcuddletherapy.co.ukwww.yourinnerglow.co.uk         heal@yourinnerglow.co.ukwww.yourtantrictouch.co.uk      heal@yourtantrictouch.co.uk

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