Erogenous zones in the human body (excluding the sexual organs)

An important aspect of not only Tantric massage but being able to fully communicate with your partner physically are the discovery and touching of the erogenous zones,the energy created massaging these sensitive areas can lead to stimulation and awakening throughout the entire body.

These zones contain a large number of nerve endings condensed in each area hence the heightened sensitivity which is experienced through different forms of touch and caressing. Through a loving touch the energy created and experienced by the receiver will lead to a greater capacity to receive and embrace pleasure leading to heightened emotions and possibly orgasms as the body responds to the state of bliss these highly sensitive areas can provide.

You do not need to be an experienced therapist to give pleasure through touch to your partner or client it is essential however that you have the right intention and to simply linger your touch in these areas, the pleasure is directed towards the receiver and not…

The importance of Polarity in Tantra

The definition of Polarity is the property of having poles or being 'polar'. In Tantra it is essential to have prior knowledge of these poles as they effect us all as human beings universally.  They exist as separate creations and yet harmonize together to form one union.

The first pole is the feminine energy or Shakti as it is known in Sanskrit, this represents the birth of creation,power,energy,force and is often personified as a Goddess.  This energy is within everything we see ...the river flowing, the power supply running through our homes,she makes your muscles work and your heart beat, but she cannot function alone,she needs to be balanced. This becomes possible with the addition of the second pole known as Shiva.

Shiva complements Shakti as both poles combine to amplify the energy around us. Shiva represents consciousness,stillness and presence,he uses his knowledge to guide Shakti and is responsible for awakening the feminine energy of her heart and soul. The male Pe…

What is body to body massage and what are the benefits?

Body to Body massage is a style of massage where the therapist uses every part of their body to massage the clients body, the receivers of this style of massage are usually men and the givers female  but sometimes these roles can reverse as genders gain pleasure and enjoyment from this unique experience.

Due to the nature of this massage the energy which is built up and created is much stronger and more profound then a standard 'Swedish style massage' and when incorporated into a Tantric massage it can increase the experience significantly as the new sensations created can make this treatment truly unforgettable. Prior to the massage commencing Tantric connection rituals are shared,these are essential elements as they prepare both receiver and giver to encourage a sense of trust and connection with no emotional or physical barriers and induce a sense of relaxation. Both parties will then de robe and the giver will at first create a build up of sensations on the receivers skin …

What is a Shaman and what is Shamanic healing?

Shaman is an Evenki word from Siberia meaning one who “sees” or “penetrates to the source.” SHAMANS ARE LOCAL LEADERS WHO PERCEIVE THE FUNDAMENTAL NATURE OF THE UNIVERSE AND SEE THE BIG PICTURE. Around the world shamans are called by many local names, among them sorcerer, healer or curandero/a, walker between the worlds, medicine man/woman, priest, transformer, psychopomp and so on. Shamans may inherit the role from their ancestors, come into it by surviving an accident or disease, display talent for it as a child, or merely seek training on their own. Both males and females function as shamans for their communities although women often raise their children first. Generally, to become a shaman requires a many years of rigorous apprenticeship with many tests and initiations along the way.
Not everyone who begins their training succeeds at becoming a shaman. Some even may die in the process. Shamans are typically high functioning people-highly respected by their communities …

What is soul retrieval and why is is performed?

Shamanic practice acknowledges the presence of spirit,wisdom and healing energy in all things. Since the ancient times Shamen have discovered and practiced the 'medicine' within and beyond this world and have used this connection for the benefit of all mankind.

A huge part of Shamanic healing is the release of trauma from the receivers body,soul retrieval is a very powerful and highly effective practice and is performed to reconnect and repair the soul.  The Shamans belief is that if a traumatic event happens to an individual which is not justified, at that particular moment of the trauma happening a part of the receivers soul will be fragmented or lost.  The Shamans role is too try to repair or bring back the soul by gently unpicking the complex tapestry of the receivers emotional state.  This must be done with great care and skill as souls that have been fragmented or lost are not always ready to be repaired or return to the body.

It can also happen during a healing that the…

What is a Yoni massage and what are the reasons for doing it?

The Yoni is the Sanskrit name for the female sexual organs or vagina and is an essential part of a tantric massage.
Throughout history women have been suppressed and were often seen as the 'weaker sex' with some experiencing traumatic experiences such as rape,emotional and physical abuse and in some countries extreme practices such as mutilation of the sexual organs to improve the love making for men but cause huge pain and discomfort for women whilst also depriving them of being able to experience any sexual pleasure for themselves. Modern women today often lead manic lives trying to balance having a career whilst raising a family and it is no surprise that the accumulation of all this stress can cause a huge build up of trauma and blockages which become stored in the body but particularly focusing in the pelvic basin and sexual organs.

  It is only through a loving and gentle Yoni massage that nodules can be broken down and dispersed just like in the rest of the body, howeve…

What is a Lingham massage and what are the reasons for doing it?

The Lingham is the Sanskrit name for the male sexual organ or Penis with its meaning translating to 'wand of light'. In an authentic tantric massage the body is treated as a whole and this includes the sexual organs particularly as the focus of the massage is healing and the majority of trauma is stored in the sexual basin. The prostate and Lingham massage is therefore an essential part of the healing process as the massage helps to release a build up of toxic energy which can cause anger and frustration if left untreated.

The Lingham massage is always performed with great care and respect,honoring the male Shiva energy and encouraging the receiver to open his body to establish a channel of energy between the heart and Lingham, with this comes self love and acceptance which is the first step in releasing trauma and negativity. Pressure in the workplace and at home can cause a man to lose the connection with his body,particularly his Lingham and Stress can over time lead to blo…